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Queer Egg Roll

J and R rolling eggsJ and I camped out all night Friday with a bunch of people organized by FamilyPride.org to get tickets for the White House egg roll. It was a lovely night and only rained a few minutes Saturday morning. Next year, we’ll be better prepared with tent and sleeping bags and bring the kids.

The egg roll itself was pretty fun. There were lots of performers on different stages, and the kids had a great time. As you see from the photo, young R and old J participated in the roll. P would have none of it and I hung out with her to cheer her little brother on.

The event was marred only by some really horrible protesters outside the gate telling our kids that they would get sick being out on such a rainy day without god protecting them. I’m pretty sure that P felt all confidence that the Goddess had her back all the way, and R doesn’t listen to anything anyone else says anyway.

We overheard some White House staff grumbling as we passed that this was a family event and that…well, whatever they said it was stupid. What would you expect from this White House?

Here are some links to coverage:
CBSNews.com story
CBSNews.com slideshow
CNN.com story
365Gay.com story
SF Chronicle story

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Chris Cook’s Drawings

A Trip to the CityMy dear friend (and former bandmate), Chris Cook, is drawing some really amazing things. I love the way they feel! There’s a sort of Southwest meets Northwest magical realism that, to me, seems totally Chris. The vibrancy and warmth in the drawings has the same sort of feeling that I used to get sitting in his kitchen, drinking Lipton tea and rolling Top tobacco after a meal of red beans and rice. Thanks Chris!

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Octavia Butler is Gone

It’s really very sad when a voice that you love – a voice that you depend on to challenge and inspire – suddenly goes silent. Science Fiction writer Octavia Butler died unexpectedly on Friday. She was only 58 years old and had just published her first book in eight years. I feel such sadness at losing the words she still had to write.

Octavia Butler wrote with intensity about issues of gender, race, sexuality, and humanity, challenging her readers with her unflinching exploration of what is means to be human. Her stories never shied from sadness or gave easy answers. I still can’t believe we won’t know what happens next.

Thank you Octavia. Thank you and good-bye.

“I’m comfortably asocial, a hermit in the middle of a large city, a pessimist if I’m not careful, a feminist, a Black, a former Baptist, an oil-and-water combination of ambition, laziness, insecurity, certainty and drive.”

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NFB Sues Target Over Inaccessible Web Site

On Tuesday, the National Federation of the Blind filed suit against Target, claiming that its site is not accessible to blind users.  This certainly would be a case to watch since, to date, we’ve thought accessibility requirements as having legal weight only with government sites.  Whether or not the NFB wins the suit, it will likely bring increased focus to the subject.  And the fact that they also mention that the Target site is "powered by Amazon.com" would seem to suggest that this isn’t the last we’ll hear about this.

"Target?s website ? which according to its home page is ‘powered by Amazon.com’ ? contains significant access barriers that prevent blind customers from browsing and purchasing products online, as well as from finding important corporate information such as employment opportunities, investor news, and company policies.

The plaintiffs charge that Target.com fails to meet the minimum standard of web accessibility. It lacks compliant alt-text, an invisible code embedded beneath graphic images that allows screen readers to detect and vocalize a description of the image to a blind
computer user. It also contains inaccessible image maps, preventing blind users from jumping to different destinations within the website. And because the website requires the use of a mouse to complete a transaction, blind Target customers are unable to make purchases on Target.com independently.

‘We tried to convince Target that it should make its website accessible through negotiations,’ says Dr. Maurer [NFB Pres.]. ‘It?s unfortunate that Target was unwilling to commit to equal access for all its online customers. That gave us no choice but to seek the protection of the court. The website is no more accessible today than it was in May of last year,
when we first complained to Target."

More information available from the Disability Rights Advocates Web site including a Fact Sheet and the complete complaint.

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Depression is Depressing

Yesterday I had to stop my second attempt at an anti-depressant due to allergic reation. Here’s how it goes:

  1. Start new meds
  2. Eat meds daily for three weeks
  3. Start feeling way better
  4. Break out in a rash
  5. Stop meds
  6. Have nightmares, itching and insomnia for a week or two
  7. Repeat

First I tried Wellbutrin. Yesterday I had to stop Effexor. Monday I’ll get a new one. If this happens again I’ll just go back to drinking heavily.

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A very nice story about softball…sort of

At last, walking slowly toward us from the parking lot, was a man built very differently from the men gathered around me. He had none of their Midwestern roundness, none of their low-slung solidity. He was tall, lean, somewhat frail, and instead of clomping along on big feet, as the others tended to do, he picked his way forward delicately, as if someone had told him to watch out for broken glass.

He was dressed differently too. Rather than the dapper uniform worn by his teammates, Meeden wore baggy street clothes–he preferred to play in his everyday duds, his teammates insisted–and he carried a sad little Kansas City Chiefs tote bag. Also, while every other man looked as if he’d been to the same Supercuts that morning, Meeden wore his white hair rakishly, almost foppishly, long. The wispy strands fell well below his shoulders.

The Unnatural Natural

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Speech Bubbles, Just Waiting For Your Pen

This guy printed out a bunch of blank catoon-speech ballons and put them up all over the place. Then he went back with a camera and took pictures of what people wrote in them.

It’s got all that I love about AdBusters (off-kilter ways of re-purposing the advertising messages of corporations) without all thatbugs me about AdBusters (their elitist above-the-hoi-palloi kind of crap…like dropping bunches of dollar bills off a balcony in a mall and videotaping the dirty, dirty lowlifes as they scramble).

Thanks boingboing!

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